Self-awareness, self-regulation, strategies for change, education on the cycle of violence. An understanding of how his abuse impacts on his partner and the relationship. He listens to me more, he is able to control his anger a lot more, he doesn’t yell at me or others as much therefore making him, myself, and others around him happier people. Honesty about who his was and how he treated us in the past. And that it doesn’t take much to change for the better. Communication – which will help us to teach our children how to go about problem solving. Feelings – how they affect our emotions/behaviour. Strategies – to be able to cope with problems.