What would you tell someone whose partner is asking them to do this program and be hesitant about doing it? As long as you are honest with yourself and not afraid of any stigma, the program will change your life. You will develop a close bond with a group of men who want to improve their relationships. You will gain insight and knowledge that you could not possibly acquire on your own. Sharing experiences with pears that I would not otherwise have anything in common is a great experience.